Much of our unhappiness in our marriages or relationships come from being let down or disappointed. But this also comes about because of having unrealistic expectations of others. The expectation that I will find a perfect and complete love with another less than perfect human being, or that I can actually live “happily ever after” is not realistic and can even be harmful. Why do we burden others with this “demand” that they make me completely happy when they cannot? Serious question which address a deeper spiritual need and that need to be addressed if I am to really find happiness in this life.